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					Originally Posted by Bizzymammabee  Take a deep breath and then elope     The whole large wedding thing is rough.  Maybe get a couple of your bridesmaides to pitch in and help you do it all.  Hopefully Sal is going to be easy going and let you have your way.  While it's overwhelming, take a woo sah breath and try to enjoy the process. Maybe try to not book too many vendor appointments in one day. | 
 
  GIRL!!!  

  Hey!!!!  Are you back?  I miss your awesome words of wisdom!  You know what is the worst part of this?  No one is financially helping and Im trying to cut corners and put on a show for family and friends and pay for the whole thing by ourselves.  I am doing all the work and paying for it for everyone else's benefit (how it feels right now)!  Not that I want or need someone to pay for it, but seriously everyone wanted a big wedding but no one thinks of the cost and stress it puts on a couple to do that!   Sal is concerned I'll regret not doing a wedding but I don't think I will.  I think it might be a bit late to cancel now though!  We already put the deposit on the hall & photographer down.  
I know I'll be thrilled the day of... I can't wait for that day to get here!!!  lol  
 
  
  
 