Warning..long rambling post.. if you want the short version just read the highlighted part!
 
ok..I am a bit embaressted that my name in on so many replies


but I am glad that it is  good - I think. 
I guess you all are right, the cap would not really work.  After reading all the post I think you all say what I am trying to say better

I think Jen is right.. maybe it is just making a very clear statement about what the ge is about.. 
maybe each person who enters "signs" and returns to admin or have a "I agree" button before their form is accepted??? It would be away of making each person who enters aware of what is required. 
I know my first ge.. I was so nervious that I would do it right.  I kept asking a friend (Lisa) is this ok? over and over.  I hope Cathy was happy, if not she had the grace to make me feel great !!  I so wanted her to like her box.  oh.. but the way.. the box I got from Teddy was amazing!! 
I have such fond memories of clue and hints with Rhonda and Jen (man.. she is like a dog with a bone when she thinks you are her sb lol).  I love the box I received from Rhonda.. the pictures, the cd and the blanket.  It is funny because I know she spent a lot on the dresses, the bows and the madin brush.. but what do I remember? The stuff from her heart!! 
Little Kami is so beautiful, it was such fun planning her box!! Her mommy - Nicki- is a sweetheart. 
Now.... that is the memories that we all should have.  I laughed until I cried reading the clues and hints that Jodi and Karen were posting.  It was the highlight of my day. 
Sorry-- talking too much!! But the point I want to make is it is a shame that the negative actions have to spoil that.  Don't get me wrong, I was upset and I do understand why people drop out.  I honestly think some of the people who have sent what some other member think are "bad" boxes know that is how they are viewed. I don't have an answer for that either.  Others are just.. well.. don't have a word for it.  
Rasing the min will help in that it makes a "statement".  I also hope just having this thread and having people post will show all what it is about. Please let's not lose the sprit of what the ge is.