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Originally Posted by TeacupLove  I am definitely not saying that my opinion is the only correct one and others should not comment. There are people on here with tons of experience and have helpful advice. And I would only encourage advice on here which is going to help a dog. But what I am saying is that those who are basically going to name call should keep it to themselves...If you have something useful to say then say it.. but if someone is just going to sit there and call him and abuser and such, well, it's just not useful at all. That's what I am saying.
It makes it a lot harder for people to post on here and ask for advice when there are those that just sit there and attack. I feel for the pup, it's not Bailey's fault that he has been brought up with no training. But I think the guy posting is not used to the breed and realizes what he is doing is not helping and is trying to get help from people who do have experience. I think that shows that he does have a heart, and people who come here and basically attack him are, in reality, not helping Bailey out at all. And that's where I have a problem, they are not helping the pup out at all by sitting behind their computers and calling the guy an abuser..what good is that actually doing?? How is that going to make Bailey's life better? That is my point. |
What do you think people should do? Lie and tell him he is doing a great job? Sorry, but enabling him is not going to help Bailey. If there is a Bailey, this guy needs help to deal with his own feelings.
Honestly, I believe we are getting our strings yanked yet again....but in case not, I have responded to the guy in the way I feel appropriate.