I think you know the answer to this one but perhaps having your thoughts confirmed by others will help. In no way is this fair to Ophelia. It's sweet of you to go to all of this trouble trying to make your daughter happy, I can see myself doing the same for my sons. However, you know this isn't just about making your daughter happy, Ophelia's well-being would be in jeopardy.
__________________  ~Ruby, Reno, Razz, & Jack~ |