[smitette]

Since you asked.....I think that it would be better for Ophelia to stay with you! I think that it would be unfair to fly her over to Germany when she is happy where she is, also, leaving her alone 9 hours or more is not right. I would think about what is BEST for Ophelia, not myself....There is no reason to send her over there....I think the best thing is to let her stay where she will be happiest! Just my opinion!