UPDATE: wanted to report a full wonderful day. I let go of my stress and anxiety and Sadie did too. She's been perfect all day no fights so far. I'm just keeping her attention on other things when she seems tense but she's been very relaxed and enjoying her day. New crates came in and the dogs love them so far. They keep going in and out of them. Sadie is making her bed in one as we speak for a little nappie.
Thanks for the encouragement. I have good dogs, I just let myself get overwhelmed and it caused problems for us all. It was all totally my fault. Now that i'm peaceful inside there is peace with all of us again. THANK the Lord for answering my peace prayers.
and thanks to all of you for the support and love. I'll keep updating.