You have gotten good advice. Keep coming and going low key. No touch, no eye contact, no talk, until you have hung up your keys , kicked off your shoes, and put your purse on the book shelf, oh that is my routine
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I would use belly bands for Abba, he is not neutered if he was greet peeing or marking. I think Mom to Hotrod and Teddy Bumpkins have wonderful products for our Yorkies check them out.