Of the things I've learned (or tried to) in life, one is that compassion, care and understanding (along with forgiveness) are crucial to our well being as humans. However, it is equally crucial to protect ourselves from abuse. My perspective is that over several GEs this SB has turned abusive. She is abusing other's good will, her "right" to take what she can and give as little as possible, "abusively" ignoring the person who gave to her with love, and also affecting the GE experience for all who enjoy the comaraderie, fun and presence of other buddies and friends. The compassion and understanding that HAD been shown to her wore thin as many protected themselves and their friends.
Furbaby:
You haven't walked in any of these shoes. In fact, many here know FAR more about the situation than you do, based on your posts. The comments made were based on "proof" that she was out and about, sewing, taking and posting pics and had plenty of time, energy and wellness to do what she chose to do.
Karma might, indeed, come into play here...
BTW, as far as the high road, to have your say and then refuse to "listen" to others about it...not such a high road, nor very understanding.
This is all sad...obviously for many. I also chose to be in this GE during a challenging time, as I knew it would be a bright, fun and happy diversion. It was for me, but not so much for Juicy and Remy.
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