I grew up in a house with ALOT of upheavel,therefore approval was not ever given. Pleasing me and not causing harm has always been my choise. To bless others without crossing the lines that I have drawn in life. To love my family with unconditional love,without accepting intended harm in my direction. To be kind to strangers (taking a grocery cart for an older person or young mother with kids) and SMILE a smile can improve your day and others.
Do I care what others think of me, NO. Others will have to take the time to get to know me and decide what they think of me,if they arent willing to take the time then they are not entitled to an openion. If they decide that they dont care for my company then they are welcome to move on. I spent to much of my childhood being abused to put up with it in my adult life. Joy is a chosen part of the adventure of life,it is not a destination.
My daddy had a saying that I have passed on to my children.
" You must love yourself first in order for others to love you" |