Yeah, that's a tough one. They say a "no" is OK if you catch her in the act, not as effective if you don't.
Since she's shaking, I'd concentrate more on rewarding success. Limit her freedom so she doesn't have the opportunity to make mistakes, then praise success when she uses the pad.
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