Patti, if will get easier. But ..having been there ..in fact still there ..you need help!
I did not find help for a while and it makes me mad that it is hard to find. Please ask your family to help, find support groups. What saved Alan is a friend of mine who is a nurse, she taught me how to get assertive. This is not the time to be sweet patti, you are the one who is fighting for your dh..
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