toby is only like that with me when i first get home from work...... otherwise i am just a big comfy cusion. . . . when i go to my moms house and take him i am like chopped liver or something, he wont even come in my direction... he is all about GRAMMA... same thing when people visit our house though, if there is a new person here (someone other than mom and dad) then he is all abotu them ,..... oh well..... in his old age maybe he will slow down so people can actually see what he looks like