I am so sorry for all the loss you have and continue to suffer. My father inlaw passed away 11/7 and he also did not want us to take him to the hospital until finally he couldn't get out of bed and I was spoon feeding him and he still couldn't eat. He went in to the hospital 11/6 by ambulance and died on 11/7. But he would not have wanted to live they way he was and I commend you for respecting his wishes even though it is so hard to do. My prayers are with you. |