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Originally Posted by ChibiLuv  The "no reason to exist" thing bothers me too. Weather or not you have kids I think people can have a reason to be here and it doesnt nessisarily have to do with kids. I'm almost 30 now and where most clocks would be ticking I just mine is just happ with my puppies. They are enough of a handful. I still want to do things before more kids (fur or skin) come into the picture. I just wish my family would just be happy they have me and im healthy and happy, it just feels like thats not enough for them and it sucks. |
Can you talk to them and tell them exactly this? I understand that sometimes it is impossible. My cousin married when he was well into his 40s, and much to the disappointment of his mother, he does not want children. His mother complains bitterly almost non-stop that my cousin has denied her the joys of being a grandmother. In that kind of case, you just have to be at peace with your decision and put up with being pestered about it.