Thanks again for your comments folks. To be honest we dont want her sleeping on the bed. My fiance and I are trying for kids so you can imagin why
We have tried putting her bed in our room but all night she is trying to jump up on the bed and keeps us awake all night long. I'm now looking at her laying on the sofa in my office and she is fast asleep, prob because she is not sleeping at night. I know it would be so much easier to have her on our bed but not sure we actually want that.
My other concern is that when she is in our room and we leave the door open just a tiny bit, she will go downstairs in the night and poo all over the living room carpet. We live in a private let house and the landlord will not be happy if she is doing this all the time. Thats why I thought the soft crate was such a good idea then we dont have to worry about it.
Its only been 6 weeks so I gues we just have to give her some time.