I have never heard of an engagement SHOWER...A PARTY to celebrate the engagement is wonderful, been to many..., but a shower where gifts are expected, then a bridal shower or several, and a wedding gift...boy, that is really a gimme, gimme all I can get thing to me...sorry...I would never want guests to bring a gift to an engagement party...the way it is today..people stay engaged for years before a wedding, even have kids...
I think the worst is asking 300 people to the parties, showers, wedding and on 50 to the reception..see it all the time. |