My friend had this problem when we moved from CO and she relocated to FL. Her Yorkie, like my Toto, is a spoiled rotten little Diva Brat and it was unbelievable how she acted. She had gone through so many changes for about a year and everything in her life was upside down. She hated the new house that my friend bought and began peeing/pooping everywhere, not eating ... it was heartbreaking. I suggested that she find and unpack all of her brat's "things" with all the smells, etc. of her happy, familiar home. She also kept kibble available to her just in case she did get hungry between regular feedings. After she had all the things familiar to her all around the house, she began to gradually become her old self but it took a long time. Now, she is the sassy, queen of the house again and things are normal and she is eating, pottying and ordering everyone around!
Hope in time your little Bubba will settle in and be happy with you and your new husband ... good luck!
