wow. didn't expect that honestly. i teared up a little even. i really thought she was going to pick the other guy. i felt like something had shifted with them and even though i did see that fire in one, i saw friendship and forever in the other. i don't know if i honestly think it will last now. just like Brad picking Emily who was the hot flame over Chantal who was the obvious match for him in terms of getting along and working really well together. i think they just get wrapped up in the romance and the passion and they pick the FLAME and not the FOREVERS. and that usually doesn't last. infatuation and passion can fade, but best friends are forever.
thank God I married a man that was my best friend, then my lover that became the most sexy man I've ever seen in my life. i got the best of the passion and the long term friendship and real love.
Biblical love, patience, kindness, are what i looked for, not just hot kissing and passion. sex gets old after years together. sometimes it doesn't even happen for weeks. it's the bond of friendship that keeps you married long after the sexual feelings. not saying all marriages are doomed to have bad sexual chemistry, but often that doesn't keep marriage perfect, it's a perk. it's the bond and the lasting friendship through every situation for the rest of the changing lives and growing together in friendship that lasts. sexual relationships can flame and fade and you just can't rely on that as the only thing you have together.
i dunno i wish her well, but i don't think it'll last forever. |