Sometimes just letting the person wake up to what they are doing helps. I think as hard as it is, you have to let him come to the realization. Because if he does see him and it gets worse, you don't want to be responsible for pushing it on him. Another route is, if you're close to his brother, or maybe even a friend, someone outside the situation that you can talk to. Quietly ask them to intervene and help him realize what he's doing. Sometimes we take our loved ones for granted and don't listen, but when an outsider tells us the same thing, we listen. |