It is amazing how men react to things sometimes. You husband obviously has a lot of emotions that he's wrestling with, and I hope he's able to sort them out before his father is gone. He may have not been the best father, but he's the only father he'll ever have. He is what he is, and your husband just has to accept that. If I were you, I would put your foot down and make him see his father for HIS sake. I love my father, but he's let me and my sister down quite a bit and we've been hurt by him alot. However, I can either spend the rest of his life resenting him for what he wasn't or loving him for what he is- my father. I think your husband has to realize the same thing. |