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Originally Posted by Jinger  I, too, feel sorry for the OP. Her post seemed very friendly and conversational, she obviously has a new puppy, and is a new poster on YT. We all learn by doing, and she was quick to acknowledge that she wouldn't take her puppy anywhere there was food...even before she was "admonished" for that very thing. Her "sneaky" comment seemed innocent and playful to me; and I agree, a bit "tongue in cheek".
What seems the most immature and selfish to me is for any of us here on YT to attack, belittle or condescend to anyone, much less a brand new person. We all have opinions and, in my opinion, they can be stated without being unkind. We have a lot we can teach each other...on every level.
I surely hope that YT doesn't get the reputation for this type of response and thread. For what it's worth, they make me feel discouraged and bring me down, and I know I'm not alone.
I'm sorry, OP. I hope you enjoy YT for a long time to come. |
Well said
A while back there was a few threads about how rude some members are.
The definition of "rude" was posted and a few "rude" comments were made.
It died down, it won't change.. people are what and who they are. It takes effort to change. I will even say I may have been viewed as rude at times... and I really don't think I was.
So.... we each have to ask ourselves how we want to be viewed or remembered. If someone is rude or blunt to you.. just past it over!!
Maybe they are having a bad day or they are very passionate about the subject or they totally misunderstood you. What battles are worth fighting?
I am speaking to myself here too. And... the subject of taking a dog in the store is just not worth loosing friends over
Now.. lets talk re-homing... lol just kidding!