I hate to keep bringing up Cesar Millan, but he's right in that dogs can sense your mood and pick up on it. You are already "stressed" about this upcoming experience. Perhaps you could work on projecting a calm-assertive energy to your new pup. Confidence, rather than fear of the new situation.
I suggest that you even watch a few episodes of the Dog Whisperer. Cesar seems to specialize in fixing these types of dogs.
Good luck. I'm sure your new family member wants to make you happy.
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