I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. One of my close friends lost her husband soon before I lost one of my little girls. Knowing how difficult it was for me, she told me that any loss of a loved one is a very deep loss. I had been hesitant to talk with her about it because of her own loss, but she understood how much I loved Kiwi and was there for me as I had been with her. It has been several years since I lost Kiwi and her sister Gracie, and I remember them with such loving, happy, and beautiful memories. I also feel pain, but the beautiful memories overshadow the pain of losing them. I lost their sister, Ashley, right before her seventeenth birthday last June. That pain is newer and much deeper as a result, but I know from losing both of her sisters, that the pain will lessen in time. It won't completely go away, but the loss of not having them in our lives would have been a far greater loss. We talk about our little girls all of the time, and our hearts overflow with such love. They are no longer physically with me, but I carry my babies with me forever in my heart. Nothing can take Athena away from you, not even her death, because love lasts forever. YT is a wonderful place to come to when you are feeling sad. We can help you cope with your deep loss. We understand that Athena is your little girl, and it hurts so much to lose your baby. I hope that, with each passing day, you feel less pain and that you can begin to remember all of the special memories that you shared with Athena. I really care, and if you need my help, just ask. |