[bellababy08]

Originally Posted by jmdt

I know it puts me, the mama, is an awkward position. She also had been telling me about this other little boy who comes in dirty. His hair is just so greasy. It looks like he just came out a pool but they didn't go in yet. He is barely potty trained and every time he goes into the bathroom it is just a disaster in there. He pees all over the floor, wall, seat. Yesterday he went in to poop and it was on the floor all over his legs and bottom. Poor kid. She can't touch him to wipe him so she just hands him toilet paper and he has to keep trying. She also tells me that she doesn't think he can hear too well. He has to be looking at you to know your talking to him. She senses something is wrong. I don't know she is with these kids from 9am til 4pm. She knows what's what you know. He was sent home with a change of clothes from the "lost and found" which never came back. The next time there was a pair of sweatpants, also from the lost and found, they put on him, no underwear. They asked the mother to send in clothes, and return the other clothes... and still nothing. They say she is a b*tch. She is well manicured and has perfect clothes and hair. My daughter is really upset but she feels her hands are tied.
They tell her oh your only 16 and you don't know so they say they understand she's young. WHAT??? I don't understand.

I mean I have a 12 yr old too so she has younger kid experience ya know. If he has a bruise on him she asks, hey where did you get that bruise. He will say he fell or something. It is just natural to ask if you see a bruise.

I'm not understanding why she can't clean him? I mean he is a 4 yr old, they need help.