I feel so awful for you. I have had ear problems since i was a child, i kno how painful they can be, i use to use a heating pad for the pain, im not sure though if that was my moms remidi or the doctors, i just know one time the pain was so bad i did go to er and they put meds right in my ear with some sort of plug that had to be removed by my family doc.
hope you feel better very very soon ~