Yikes! I thought I was subscribed to this thread. I have not seen this in a while. I am so sorry, Gail, that so much just keeps being heaped on.
All I can say is I have a belief that when things like this happen....the good has to come and it will be so good. I always think that things go like that...lots of bad and then lots of good to follow! Just like the rain brings flowers!
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.