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Originally Posted by hnybun128  I actually considered this, but I don't think so. And the more I thought about it, the more I'm sure it's the same receptionist making the comments. The vet did make one comment once, but I think all the others were probably from the same woman. You can never really know what's going on in someone else's head, but I do kind of feel there's a slight tone with the comments. |
This is seems to really really be bothering you. My only recommendation would be to not wait until the next visit. I think going in and nicely let them know that you are bothered. More than likely, the receptionist doesn't realize that you are taking offense to it.
OK, probably being too open on a public forum here but... from someone who grew up in a very critical household, I can overanalyze a statement with the best of them!!! I sleep much better at night now that I no longer let it eat at me until it impacts my health and/or happiness. I have found that 99.9% of the time, it was not said to try to hurt your feelings or out of spite. In the few times that I did believe the comment was malice in nature, it also feels pretty nice to walk away with that person knowing that you intend to call their bluff on any snide remarks moving forward.
But again, in my opinion, don't wait. Just go in and tell them how much you have enjoyed the services you have received there but that something has been eating at you and would appreciate two minutes to just "clear the air". You will feel so much better afterwards.
I wish you the best of luck especially because finding a vet that you truly love and fully trust with your babies can be so difficult.