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Originally Posted by ArmaniMan

You can tell him that you do not put her above him, that you love him and wish he would take his medication in order to keep his disease under control. But that he is an adult and has made the choice not to take his medication and there is nothing you can do about that. However, Lexie cannot stand up for herself and take care of herself so you need to step in and do that for her.

Perfect response!