We don't know who our buddy is either. Guess that is why it is called a secret buddy.
Daddy's sometimes don't understand and they think it is all dumb. My hubby is the same way and just shakes his head at some of the things. As long as mommy and the babies are happy then that is all that matters. And I am sure your SB will LOVE what you made and it will be perfect. Is it for us??