[Winston08]

So this may be a little off topic but since I know this is a place where everyone loves their furbabies as much as I do, I figured I could get a little advice and peace of mind.

I am in a new relationship with with a guy that I like a lot. It has been going on about 4 months and has gotten serious enough where are now spending quite a bit of time together. He does not have dogs. When he is at my place he interacts with them and shows interest and appears to really enjoy them. They are my everything, my first priority because they are my responsibility and frankly my babies. We live about 45min apart so try to split up the time spent at each others house but to be honest he is here waaaaaay more than I am there. I want to be there but packing up two crate, food and the dogs to go spend the night is so much work. And when we are there I cant relax because am nervous they will pee in the house or get into something. Scarlett is 8 months and still has that puppy destruction from time to time. It's not as if they will be left alone there but I know he is very anal about his stuff and really doesn't want them to "ruin" anything.

Sorry for being so long winded. I just really don't want to see this relationship go by the way side because I have my babies. Any advice??