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Originally Posted by capt_noonie  I agree, and which is why I didn't say anything. (the owners were young and fit mind you. Actually the lady was probably 100 lbs soaking wet, quite thin.) But I worry for the dog.  but then why do so many asian moms (mine and many NOT mine and are not relatives) think it's ok to tell me I've gained weight? Is there a certain age that you just stop listening to reason and say whatever you want? Kids under 7 and seniors over 70 are exempt.  |
You are right. I just don't see anything good coming out of telling somebody they (or their dog, baby, etc) are fat. It's dangerous territory, and does more harm than good. Etiquette usually prevents us from saying everything we think
Ok, if I sound defensive, it's cause Meika has put on a few pounds, and I see it, but I sure hope nobody else feels a need to tell me. I already feel bad enough, and have to help her take it off.
She must be eating the food Tiki turns up her nose at, cause Tiki is too thin, and well Meika is *not*
