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Old 05-09-2011, 07:30 AM   #20
lovespandp
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Originally Posted by enchilila View Post
A journal is a good idea. My dad died in 2006. That is when I started caregiving my mother. I find myself at times, just for a fleeting minuscule second, wanting to pick up the phone and talk to him. Old habits are hard to break.
It helps as much as it can. I broke down the other day b/ c I feel myself forgetting memories. I would give anything to talk to him or feel a hug from him, but that is something we have to deal with. I just try to think that he is around me all the time, even if I can't see him, sometimes I feel his presents around me and I talk outloud, hoping to see a sign that he is there.

If you ever need to talk, or someone to vent to let me know, I'm always a PM away!
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