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Originally Posted by lovespandp  DvlshAngel985 & YorkieRose- Thanks, you guys are right! I feel like I have not been there to support him as I should be! I feel like such a jerk!
YorkieRose- You know what I DO like your reply!! I think I just needed to hear it, as silly as that sounds. I know I should know what to do, and how to handle this, I have been selfish to him. I know he is stressed and tired and all of the above. Me as his partner should be there for him. You are 100% right!
I have just been annoyed with me being alone, when he is the one getting no sleep, and working hard labor at 2 jobs!!
I think I don't give him enough credit, I mean he works these crazy hours and he never complains about it, so I assume it doesnt phase him. I know he is tired and stressed out, but he doesnt communicate with me very often. I am not saying it gives me an excuse but if he were to tell me how tired he is and how much he misses his family I would see it and hear it..
I need to talk to him when he gets home, I hope he will understand how sorry I am, sometimes I think it takes someone to say something for you to notice something, even if you already should have notcied it  |
Wow, this makes so much sense now that I think about it. No wonder my dad was such a jerk when I was a kid. Working two full time jobs, trying to raise 3 kids without the mom. I guess we both thought that unless men tell you they are tired or stressed, then they are not huh? I say tell your dh that you understand and that you are there for him. The 2nd job isn't going to last forever right, just temporary?