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Originally Posted by YorkieRose  All feelings are valid..but I always try to put myself in the other persons place...and sweetie, all I know is...if I worked 19 hrs a day, I would have nothing left to give...
I hope this schedule can end soon...it is not healthy for him in any area of his life.
PS...it will all come back to you in the years to come...my husband treats me like I am the most special person on earth...he would do anything for me...
Marriage is rarely 50/50...it depends on what the person is going through at any given time...some time he may need 100% during a difficult time...but he will be there when you need 100%...
If he was out partying it would be different..but he is working for his family...everyday tell him something positive about him and his hard work...make him feel like a king...and I double dog guarantee you will reap a heap of good things to come....you are laying a solid foundation to last a life time. |
Thank you so much for the words of wisdom! I will take everything you say to heart. Its hard for me, I have no one to really talk to. I have him, he is my best friend as well. It is hard when something like this comes up and not have anyone to turn to for advise. I am glad to have YT!
I know this schedule is not healthy for him, I worry about that. I believe the job is almost over, I am glad to have heard the kind words you said I have the confidence to help him more, and support him. DH would do anything for me, I need to be more of a supporter for him, esp now when he needs me the most.
I am not always good with words, I have never been. I can write on a paper or on the computer but when it comes to talking I am horrible! I will just have to show him in actions. When he gets home I am just going to hug him and tell him I am sorry, then from there start to support him in anything he needs!
ps- I am so glad you posted on my thread, You have truly helped me and I want to Thank you from the bottom of my heart!