05-05-2011, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by CaptainLeroy Actually, I DID ask if I could have the name of the adoptive parents and was told NO. I assumed that would also go for the new foster parents, but like you said, it doesn't hurt to ask. I really feel it's important for the adoptive (and foster) parents to have contact with the former parents, as questions may arise concerning important and specific issues. I understand YTNR has to follow procedure, but I just wish I had been informed beforehand of all their policies. Also, I did ask YTNR to PLEASE try and place them together, and they assured me they would TRY but could not guarantee it. TxVicki, you were probably looking at the right two dogs - Bode (pronounced Bo-dee) and Emma, but that adoption fee is for EACH. The two together are $1600. On one hand, I feel like no one is going to pay that much for both dogs, so they'll almost certainly be separated. On the other, if someone DOES pay that much, they'll surely want only the best for them. Yes, hindsight is 20/20. Even as my heart tells me I did the right thing, it bleeds into my soul. I knew that I would grieve, but I never thought I would be inconsolable. My spouse keeps saying, "We can get a lawyer and get them back," but no...no, we can't. We can't bring them back into the same situation. They need more than we can give them. Sometimes love just isn't enough. | No they won't give you the name of the adoptive parents name and email. This is a safety percaution. I know with my Allie I just adopted in Mid-March she was an owner turn-in. I would think if I tried contact the owner it would be so very heart breaking as I know it was hard to give her and her sister up. But I also talk with her Foster Mom and email her. Now this may be different since I'm the one that adopted her. Yes, those were two I was looking at. I guess I looked at the site wrong I thought the fee was both. But you are right if someone pay's that much to adopt them you be sure they are going to be taken of. I'm sorry your heart broken I know this had to be hard.
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