So at the end of the day everyone has said what they had to say and apparently everyone thinks because I put the emotions next to my comment it means in your face. Which is completely wrong, if that is the way anyone took it please except my apologizes. I just like to put emoition next to most of my posting and it is what it is...
But please understand this, I will still be using emoition icons and if you are not sure what i meant by them feel free to ask

Once again thanks for everyone input!!!!