Just now seeing this thread.

I'm sorry you've had such a rotten week. Divorce is so painful...my heart really goes out to you. (((hugs)))
The lightening strike was in your area? I saw the video about it on my iPad weather channel app. So sad.
Well, I truly consider you my friend!

I'm here if you need me!
Even if
you refuse to accept
your banned status!
Oh, just to make you smile: