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Originally Posted by envrobear Because he does treat me very well and I know I don't have to worry about him not being faithful to me. I know also I have gotten too attached to his family and friends which if things don't turn out I will miss very much. |
Again please forgive my boldness and the following book---
How do you know he is faithful? Do you know what he is doing when he goesn't have duty? Unless you are there 24/7 you don't know and even when you are you don't always know.....
Sorry I just know what is like having been down that road- it is very painful...
I am still very attached to my ex's family- my kids, my step daughter and my husband and I all had Christmas with my ex's family Monday night. But you aren't with them you are with him.....
Honey don't let the what if's scare you, you need to read "minniemn's" and others post's on here because life is too short to spend it with the wrong person. There are many others out there that will treat you with respect and do what they say they will...Others that will love you for you!
I guess I sound so nasty and hurtful because I have waited for those calls, then after I married him thinking if I could only change this one thing about him I then waited for him to come home, and waited for this and that....It kind of reminds me of the song by Garth Brooks- the Thunder Rolls...Except I didn't do that final verse I just left I couldn't take the lack of trust any longer...
Sorry for the book......
Ever since my ex joined the service--Out of sight out of mind- is how his mind thinks! Cause he is still cheating on his current wife!