That is a personal decision only you can make. There is no right or wrong answer, some people say their goodbyes before and leave, others stay thru to the end. Do whatever is comfortable, as Rufus is going to be relieved to be set free of his worn out body.
Whether you are there or not, know that it is your memories of the good times that will stay with you forever, and that is what Rufus wants you thinking about now and forever after. Focus on the happy times, and not the end. |