Thanks V- I have learned a lot from you also.
Actually it is great to hear/read about people experiences from those who have been there... but I try and think back to when I was "in love" with the guy who is now my "ex"- he was a nasty man, and I was blinded by love so I didn't see the warning signs..
But I do wonder, if anyone would of given me advice, or told me their stories, would I have believed them and would it of changed my life.. or would I have said "well, my situation is different, this man loves me and he won't do those things ect?"
I would like to think I would of saved myself a lot of grief, but in reality I was young and thought I knew all the answers, and that would not have happened to me.
livingdustmops- I love that saying... "we all create our own path" I am going to print that out and put it up by my desk.... (if you don't mind) that is such a true statement, one that makes you think. |