I like the thought that I am setting them free by spreading their ashes. Free from the confines of a house or yard, and free to roam without worry of cars or predators. I know I wouldn't want to be kept in an urn, and I don't think my pets would want that either. But, that's not to say I woudn't keep the ashes for some time while I decide on the perfect place. And I am not saying it is wrong to keep them if that's what anyone chooses. Instead of keeping the ashes, I keep something else, a favorite blanket, a tuft of hair, a favorite toy and lots of pictures. I am so sorry about your loss. What ever you decide will be the right choice for you.
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