After a bad marriage and then a long term bad relationship I decided to do something different.
I was going to treat others how I wanted to be treated, if they didn't treat me the way I felt I should be treated I moved on. I never played games with people and I didn't feel I had unrealistic expecations. Since I also treated that person how I wanted to be treated.
Anyways, my jist of this post is to say, be open and honest with yourself- the way you are being treated now, is the way you will be treated when/if you are married, can you accept that? are these things that bother you something you can live with forever? (marriage does not change a person into a better person)
I don't believe in "normal man behavior"... just because we all carry something different in our pants (meaning men and women) doesn't give us excuses to have certian behaviors... he did what he did because it is who he is, not because he is a "man" |