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Originally Posted by BeyonceMomma23  Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I felt like you were saying "I wish we could get an update" in a mean way & laughing with others. When I am honestly upset about this, I have barley eaten in 2 weeks since this happened & I have been so sick to my stomach I havent been able to even leave my house not even for work. Everyone most likely thinks I dont care about Bee which isnt the thing, because I wouldnt be so upset that I have lose 10 pounds in 2 weeks if I wasnt 
I have called reproductive vets & breeders, all saying that she will be fine 99.9% likely, as long as I get an xray the week before she is due to make sure all the puppies are small enough. As of right now I dont 100% positively know what I am doing, but I am thinking about letting her go on with her pregnancy, because she will be fine, they ALL said. "toy reproductive vets" said she would be. I am not for sure yet. But I dont know why I would "get rid" of something that could be BEAUTIFUL & I will get her spayed afterwards either way. I dont know. I just feel so alone when YT usually made me feel like I had millions of supporters ALWAYS even if it wasnt about Bee.
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Lauren |
I'm just now reading all this, and I'm sorry the whole thing is happening. From what I have read, I thought that when breeding most small dogs, the male is usually smaller than the female to try to avoid problems. Not just with the delivery, but for the mother's health during the pregnancy itself. Also, is the point of an xray to determine if the mother can deliver the puppies safely? What about being able to carry them safely to term?
This isn't a personal issue for me, so I am not emotionally invested like you are, but I don't think anyone was being nasty or mean in their posts, at least, I didn't read any that way.
I think you have the advantage now of being a member of this forum and there is a ton of information for you to read and prepare for the puppies and delivery. Research and learn everything you can about dogs whelping and all the signs of trouble a dog can have with delivery. It might help with the stress you are feeling over this. Also, I am sure there are members on this forum who are willing to help you when the time comes.
I wish you and your baby well and really hope you don't take anything anyone says badly, I don't think it was meant that way. Everyone really cares about Bee and just want to know she is okay.