I as others, just wanted to offer you sympathy. My suggestion would be to ignore it best you cn and stand firm. Like a newborn baby, it should get easier.
I guess I got SUPER lucky with Bella as she slept in her dog house bed thingy I got her from day one! Not a whimper or a cry one, either!
Now, she is in our bed, along with a 3 year old my husband and I. LOL thank goodness we have a King size matress!! I elected to let her sleep near me after I knew she was not going to potty in my bed. Might I add that she is quite the guard dog too in the middle of the night, one noise lately and she goes berserk growling (sounds more like purring
) and barking!