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Originally Posted by Nancy1999  I'm sorry you're so upset, but I think Fldebra was trying to just give you an idea from the breeder's perspective. I don't think she was implying you lied anything. I think that's what she meant by "devils advocate", just allowing you to look at it from the other side, in order to make a better decision for you.
Buying a puppy is a big deal, and we all realize that people are emotional when buying a dog. You really seem like you've done a lot of homework on how to find a good breeder, and it can be overwelming! I fully support your idea that if you have bad feelings, you should look elsewhere. I think a breeder should be patient and reassuring, but it sounds like she got her money and didn't want much more to do with you. I just want to say that I'm so sorry of all the turmoil you've had in your life, that's way more stuff than anyone should handle, but I also believe you have the power to overcome that, and become an extremely strong person. They say what doesn't kill you leaves you stronger, so please, try to take a step back and know that we were just trying to help you make the best choice for you. |
I will try to understand that. I would like to believe that what she said was not trying to be as mean as it came across. With that being said, some of the things she said she should take a second look at and realize that when reading on the computer and talking in person one sentence can be misconstrued. Perhaps, I did do that, I not saying I am perfect in any way, but still to be careful can prevent a lot of damage. After talking to my fiance i realized I shouldn't internalize it but sometimes it is easier said than done.
Of course, I would like to apologize for offending anyone with my posts or threads for that matter. I am not here to start or be part of conflict. (Just need to find a way to post pics.) Maybe I can just open a flicker account or something.)