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Originally Posted by MyLovelyNiko  I did not read your entire post. I felt I had cried enough from what you posted the other day. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO RESPOND TO ME! I am new here, and I hope everyone else who is new can read some of the posts you write and think twice before asking a question. Attacking me for no reason. Perhaps I did get you confused with someone else that is the only thing I apologize for. BUT YOU HAVE NO _______ IDEA WHAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND CONTINUE TO GO THROUGH! You have no clue what you say and how you say it and it is OFFENSIVE to people. In fact I am shaking as I type this because on a daily basis I struggle with past memories.
I watch my father kill my mother.
I was raped.
My brother died in an accident I suppose to be in.
My other brother beat me up.
I was abandoned by my both of my ENTIRE family and left to find a way to get into college on my own.
Once in college I was diagnosed with Major Depression and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
Then I come online to get suggestions and you type crap. I don't care if you don't agree with what I say, NOT a big deal! But it is how you say it that matters. "It seems like misplaced priorities to me." <--- ????? You HAVE NO CLUE!
The ONLY reason I am sharing this with you all and everyone else who may see this is because I want to teach people a lesson. And the lesson is, you NEVER know who is on the other end of the screen reading the hurtful posts you put out there. Yes, some people MAY very well deserve a "rude" awakening but there are plenty of people who are "good" people at heart. I hope I NEVER meet someone like FlDebra...or anyone who agrees with what she says for that matter. Because it is the same people that the news and media are so concerned with, Internet Bullies. Despite me trying to diffuse the situation or you just leaving me alone you continue to bother me. I cried hard last night because of what you said. Since I was 10 I have been mistreated and falsely accused and then to come to a place where no one knows you and have the same thing happen is ridiculous. I never would have thought when I decided to join this site I would experience something like this. Your mindset needs a hard-looking, if you "think" what you said was kind. As I mentioned before I cannot and will not spend all day online trying to explain something to 1 person. Because only YOU are the one who got it all wrong....hmm, says something I believe. Perhaps you need to talk with someone and pray for a compassionate spirit. Never will I play the Devil's Advocate...I would just tell the truth, end of story. And if you "think" you caught me in a lie, "think" again. When I said spent hours that meant totaling up the length of times we have talked. First time I called her and questioned her we were on the phone for 45-55 min. One other phone call was 32-36 min. long. After that the average phone call was 13-17 min. The emails were mostly pictures. Not a description or a sentence even. Not a he is doing great. Or he has grown this much. Or he now being weaned. Or any of that. Would anybody who cares want a REAL update about a pup they had been watching grow up...I think so! So I would ask her a question she would respond back. That's it. Why breed if you don't care about the homes they go to. I realize the breeder I thought to be good was in fact not...who's fact was that? Mine, I should have stuck with my gut perhaps. But who lied? She did. Who doesn't care? She doesn't. Who is doing it for ulterior motives? She is. NOT ME! My post was about what I should do regarding the breeder. Don't have that question anymore...Why? BECAUSE I HAVE THE PUPPY! If you got a problem here...then don't bother posting on a thread I started. Your post is not doing any good at all...and I thought that would be the whole reason for posting...  May God Bless You!
Once again thank you to all who posted. I appreciate the concern. I will try to post a few pics before I delete this account!
Thanks FIDebra!  |
I'm sorry you're so upset, but I think Fldebra was trying to just give you an idea from the breeder's perspective. I don't think she was implying you lied anything. I think that's what she meant by "devils advocate", just allowing you to look at it from the other side, in order to make a better decision for you.
Buying a puppy is a big deal, and we all realize that people are emotional when buying a dog. You really seem like you've done a lot of homework on how to find a good breeder, and it can be overwelming! I fully support your idea that if you have bad feelings, you should look elsewhere. I think a breeder should be patient and reassuring, but it sounds like she got her money and didn't want much more to do with you. I just want to say that I'm so sorry of all the turmoil you've had in your life, that's way more stuff than anyone should handle, but I also believe you have the power to overcome that, and become an extremely strong person. They say what doesn't kill you leaves you stronger, so please, try to take a step back and know that we were just trying to help you make the best choice for you.