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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

Yes, it is good to ignore all that you can but an attempt to ruin a reputation in public is a serious problem that does sometimes need to be addressed by someone with standing in their community. And venting can be healthy if not cruel or obsessive in nature. I think the Bible even talks about the wisdom of a prudent man not taking offense but also advises rebuking a neighbor who has wronged us lest we sin. I'm paraphrasing poorly as it is late and it has been a while since I have read either of those verses but I guess it is wise to not be quick to get angry when unfair things are said or done but if the wrong is sufficient to cause us serious grief, it is probably best to try to clear the air.

You are so correct it is Leviticus 19:17 NIV says.."'Do not hate your brother in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in his guilt.
But also to cross reference this: Matthew 18:15 "If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.

To the OP...Great post!