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Originally Posted by smallmans  I love this forum! I have never been attacked, slandered, or intimidated! I got my Bella as a rehome, she was my FIRST dog ever and boy did I have alot to learn. I spent alot of time reading and learning from the many people that pos ton this site. The membership helped me to become a very educated Yorkie owner. I am heartbroken to see that there is arguing, backbiting, ugly words, etc. between Yorkie lovers. (FB) I am hoping that those of us that are very satisfied with the running of this forum will refrain from becoming involved in this controversy. I was raised to ignore people that say disparaging remarks about others. I went to this FB page to become inmed and was sad to see that there was such negative talk, especially by one vocal member. I will continue to support this forum as I feel that it does make a huge difference in my dog knowledge. I will not read the negative FB page again. Each person is entitled to their opinion and has the right to free speech. I am not sure what sparked such a volatile reaction to a forum. Please, let's not give attention to this oppositional post on FB. let's continue to make the YT forum a place for sharing, learning, and care. I would hate to see it fall victim to negative controversy that would dilute the message of this forum . . . the love, care, and welfare of a wonderful breed . . . the Yorkshire Terrier. |
Yes, it is good to ignore all that you can but an attempt to ruin a reputation in public is a serious problem that does sometimes need to be addressed by someone with standing in their community. And venting can be healthy if not cruel or obsessive in nature. I think the Bible even talks about the wisdom of a prudent man not taking offense but also advises rebuking a neighbor who has wronged us lest we sin. I'm paraphrasing poorly as it is late and it has been a while since I have read either of those verses but I guess it is wise to not be quick to get angry when unfair things are said or done but if the wrong is sufficient to cause us serious grief, it is probably best to try to clear the air.