Thanks everyone!  I tried a soft kennel in my room last night, and she only cried in the beginning and then once at 3:00 when she needed to pee.  Progress!  I don't want to start the habit of letting her sleep in my bed...as cute as that would be.  One of the main reasons is that my bed is really high, and she could literally hurt herself if she fell out.  Glad to hear that I'm doing all the right things!  I guess we both just need time.  
