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Originally Posted by FlDebra  VERY strange! First I thought maybe they could have meant it as a compliment -- you know, just including you as "one of the guys" as I got similar comments when I was in the Navy. They were said with friendship. But since you said they have been doing this all along, I can't figure it. I agree with everyone here -- you are gorgeous and very feminine looking. My guess is you wound up with several who just enjoy finding a person's "BUTTON" and pushing it to the extreme. Hold your head high and know that you are both intelligent & beautiful. Those qualities will stay long after these cads have realized what idiots they have been. |
At first that is what I thought too, until I realized that they would go out on the weekends and they would invite everyone in the class BUT me...very difficult to feel as "one of the guys" when I only get made fun of but never invited to go out and have fun, OR tell me when they're meeting up to work on homework assignments...I usually end up having to do everything by myself
